Quiche request for Lori :o)

A couple years ago Travis and I joined Lynn and Lori for the most delicious quiche one afternoon. It was SO delicious that we have remembered it even years later! Lori, if you read this will you please post the recipe or maybe Sarah can get it? I really want to try it out myself!

Your Child's First Teacher

When I saw the title to the book Sara had read, You Are Your Child's First Teacher, it stuck in my head, following me about the house while I did my morning routine.
I recall reading one book about childrearing, probably because it was the only one out there. I can't recall its title but it was the standard. Susan will undoubtedly come up with it. But I didn't have to worry, I had my mother, my aunt, my sister, my sister-in-law, my best friend, my mother-in-law, sisters-in-law, living nearby, all of whom were ready for advice, suggestions and just to give me stories so I would know what I was going thru was normal. I knew what kind of child I did not want to raise, the brat we always see in department stores, or sit next to in crowded places. Thinking that would be easy was my first mistake.
Seeing my children now at 28, 24, 19 years of age, I am amazed at who they are. I was not a perfect mother. I did not have a perfect home. There was dust on the counters for the kids to write their names in, dirty dishes in the sink. They witnessed screaming fights between their parents. They heard cuss words that would rival anything you hear on HBO. And they survived.
I never really thought of myself as my child's first teacher, although I knew I was. The best thing I did was I taught my children phonics as I wanted to make sure they knew how to read and I was certain the school system was inadequate in that regard. My theory has always been if you can read, you can do - learn, anything. And I always made sure I was honest with my kids. If they asked me a question, I would answer it. Truthfully. If I didn't know the answer, I would find out. This means being ready to talk to your child about sex when they are as young as 6 years old. When they ask the question, you have to have an answer. If you don't, you will soon learn they will go somewhere else for their answers and that is NOT a good thing for them to be doing.
Having that book title with me this morning made me think a new book should written.

Your Child Will Become Your Best Teacher

This would be my advice to mothers. Relax and learn all that you can from your baby. You are obviously a wonderful person. Look at who you are. You are smart, have graduated from school, worked at jobs, know what you love and don't love, played sports, found a mate, you know what makes you happy, unhappy, you are functioning well in this world.
You have a baby. Watch how your baby reacts to the world. See what the baby smiles at, what catches his attention. See what makes him cry. Notice how his digestion works. See the world thru his eyes. This will give you a new prospective on your own life.
As he grows, listen to what he says, and ask what he thinks about things. Life is new and fresh to him. The words he speaks come straight from the heart, a quality that we tend to lose as we grow older. He can see joy in things that we have stopped even recognizing.
I know parents worry if they are doing the right thing and want better things for their child than they had in life. But this is my belief.
My child picked me.
True, I made the decision to have the child, but the child I got picked ME. For whatever reason, Butch and I had all the qualities and knowledge this child needed to fulfill their destiny. That thought in itself took a lot of pressure off my mind.
Since they picked you, you know you have what it takes to help them become who they need to be.
Now you can focus on what they came here to teach you. This is the fun part. Open your heart, let the love in and the teaching begin.

Two birthday videos for you Charma!

Great Movie

If you haven't already, please treat yourself to Into the Wild. Travis and I watched it last night and both really liked it. I had wanted to read the book but Netflix was too quick. I think I'll read it anyway. I am searching for the same escape and I am just a bit jealous of Alexander Supertramp.

It's a great day to be alive!

I know the sun's still shinin' when I close my eyes
There's some hard times in the neighborhood
But why can't every day be just this good?

Spring is here and so were my parents! Here are some photos for your viewing pleasure:



Not such a short stack of Cash anymore!















Ahhhhh.... the family!
















The only way we could all be making the same face. It was Cash's idea :o)






























Cookies I invented that you HAVE to try! :

The "Good Stuff" cookie

Submitted by: Sara

Prep Time: 15 minutes Cook Time: 15-20 minu

Ready In: 0 Yields: 24 servings

"All of my favorites: chocolate, oatmeal, raisins, and coconut all rolled into one great light cookie that's not that bad for you!!!"

INGREDIENTS:

1.5 sticks of butter softened 1 cup Splenda, 0.5 cup brown sugar, 2 eggs, 1 tsp vanilla extract, 1.75 cups whole grain flour, .25 cup wheat germ,

.25 cup oatmeal 1 tsp baking soda .5 tsp salt .5 cup shredded coconut .5 cup mini chocolate chips .5 cup raisins

DIRECTIONS:

1.	mix butter, splenda, brown sugar and vanilla in mixer
2.	add eggs one at a time blending well after each egg
3.	add raisins
4.	add oatmeal
5.	add wheat germ
6.	in large bowl mix flour, salt and baking soda together
7.	add flour mixture to butter/sugar mixture in mixer bowl
8.	blend well
9.	add chocolate chips and coconut
10.	spoon onto greased cookie sheets
11.	bake at 350 for 15-18 minutes or until golden

Recipe Submission from Sara

Printed from Allrecipes.com 4/11/2008

Your Life

Here's how to view every decision you've ever made: It was right.

Here's how to view every path you've ever chosen: It was right.

Here's how to view every trend, friend, and dance you've ever moved with: They were right.

And here's how to view the fact that you even exist at all: "I" am totally on fire.

The Universe

Endings or Beginnings??

"God never slams a door in your face without opening a box of Girl Scout cookies...." Eat, Pray, Love

I love how the universe works. Leap and the net appears.

I had a long talk with Bree today. She has been struggling with the opportunity Mike has to work in Canada. Within days she gets told that the lease will not be renewed on her shop, there is space for her and Trish at a new shop opening on Williams Ave, things are just a popping, all in a new direction. How exciting for her! An end to Bella Sorellas, which is sad, but what an opportunity is opening up for her and her family. Good things for good people.

Something has to go for something better to show itself.